I Understand

We all have difficulties in our lives. Our own obstacles to come over, our own nightmares to shed light to, our own fears to keep walking towards until the conflict is resolved. But, to call upon your friend only when you desire their help, certain set of skills, or need the guidance or power of their certain beliefs, words, habits then you should be ashamed of yourself. It's only normal to seek out a friend in the time of your need, emergencies, but if that's all your friendship has come to, I am sorry to say, but you should reconsider it and your friend is not dumb. She clearly sees this and answers your prayers in such a way.