Background

The more research we have been doing, checking out the discussion forums. There is a pattern. I was really hoping that me being a citizen would change everything, but it doesn't seem to effect anyone but the couple living through the ordeal. Everyone else, couldn't possibly care any less. It just is not humanly possible.
I do not think it is possible to achieve our dream: Finish our education, gain experience, change S's visa status into a naturalized citizen and then go back to Turkey. I am desperately hoping the lawyer will say something else entirely.